I always feel like forgiving them (only some of them) who has hurt me in the past. They who passed bad comments on me, they who made me angry, they who quarreled with me, they who were somewhat cruel. Of course, they are the ones who have not really hurt me deep deep down that I won't be able to forget and forgive; or maybe I can and will, after 10 years or more.
Of course, it takes time. After some time, when I've forgotten how angry I felt, I feel like being friends with they who mistreated me. I don't understand why.
Maybe it's simple, need no explainations. Forgive = friends, no?